I agree with you that we need to guide Viking Warrior I don’t know how my story ends but it will never say I gave up shirt. We are their first education system, but how do we respond when our children take off in other directions? So we don’t always support them. We feel like failures if we can’t make our children be at least part of what we want them to be. I’m talking about as they grow into adulthood and when they are fully adults, not when they are small. We don’t realize that they are separate beings on completely separate paths than us. Instead, we see them as extensions of ourselves. See the beauty that we instill in them as parents but at the same time, don’t extinguish their own light. You missed the message but most controlling parents do and they allow fear to take over and forget to love and accept their children first.