I completely agree, especially now that I’m older. I’m the opposite of the Tough Enough To Be A Dad And Papa Cray Enough T-Shirt, I knew in my early 20s that I didn’t want kids and haven’t changed my mind. I never wanted to waste anyone’s time and was honest. Being older avoids this convo but was necessary 10-15 years ago. As a guy, he has plenty of time left. My uncle became I first time dad in his late 40s and again in early 50s. Men don’t run out of time as women do.