I am in tears. This man was apart of all of our lives, if you were an adult with Mork and Mindy or a 90’s baby watching Aladdin. I have aspergers syndrom and this man gave me Spice Grohls girls shirt. That there are people that are different that make a difference. When he died, a piece of that childhood joy was lost too. Bangerang my friend. We all miss Pan the Man. You are right but this is not easy when you have reconciled to the situation even understood and sympathised with the person who has harmed or insulted you ,but that person does not let you go ,does not stop harming or belittling you and remains a thorn in your flesh !