Once your children were part of your Sloth holding Buddha’s hand I’m mostly peace love and light and a little go fuck yourself retro shirt so you are living it. Try and make a little time to do other things. My mum died this year and it made me realize how little time we have here so I started a degree in bioscience. I also have 2 companies I run, and 2 kids, a renovation project I take care of with my husband. It’s full on but I feel more alive than I have for years. Time spent on things you love can make chores seem easier. Hope you find time for you. Seems like he’s smart of enough to follow his dreams so he then can support his family without worries, sorry you didn’t make that choice. Big ole facts. I have a wife, four kids, work a job and do a lot more. With all these great responsibilities, I still go after my dreams strategically.