Alfred Lord Tennyson wrote, tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all Nope Still Not Having Kids My Cat Is Allergic Shirt. My late father-in-law, Mr. Lawrence Tiefel, or better known as Mr. T or Mr. T, I pitty the fool, was a great and loving man. The first time I came over to his house, he allowed me not only to sit in HIS seat, IN HIS HOUSE, but also fall asleep on HIS COUCH, as if it were my house lol. In my defense, it was due to the fact that I was so allergic to cats and earlier had to take Benedryl. Mr. T, wasn’t a macho man or king of the castle and act like, what the heck does this kid think he’s doing? but instead welcomed me into his home and family and made me feel as if I had belonged the whole time.