They are not “retards, spacekids, grinch or idiots” and I, as their mother didn’t want to have them with me to expose them to disrespect and violence but to recover the time I’m Surrounded By Idiots Grinch Christmas Sweatshirt. They have the right to play and raise their hand without being pushed down, take a nice shower and sing as no one is listening without being forced to shut up in horrible ways.