I never said I was a victim. I’m just pointing out how cold people are. There’s nothing wrong with helping people. Those that blame victims are the extremists that find excuses not to help. That’s my point, extremism is harmful no matter how strong someone is; everyone needs to experience human kindness. I have yet to experience this. I’ve experienced far too much extremism and it’s rather sickening.  Good for you! Seriously…not everybody makes it. For what ever reasons! It’s sure too bad. We don’t get to pick our families! But, in spite of all the horrendous road blocks you have succeeded. Beautiful I’m into fitness fitness taco in my mouth shirt.