I think these people are confusing ASD with I speak in Disney song lyrics and Harry Potter quotes shirt  personality disorder. While we aspies can sometimes be aloof to other people’s feelings, when it is explained to me what is being felt and how it’s affecting others, I am not hesitant to work things out and try to fix them. I care very deeply for others and how they feel. I’m very loving and compassionate. In my relationships with NT men, I have felt lonely and ostracized by them as well. You might say I’m different because I’m a woman on the spectrum and these people being complained about are men on the spectrum.