I agree all people should be allowed to be the person who they are. I love I can’t drive 55 but I can drive 08 shirt. So I tried to make that point several times, I think I did it quite effectively. But a ‘sacrifice’ is a bit different from being a person who you aren’t. A sacrifice is not going to that concert because you and your significant other needs you for whatever reason, changing who you are is never going to a concert again because your significant other doesn’t like them. I can appreciate your comment. Be sincerely who you are but while respecting others. Makes sense. Being vulnerable simply means being vulnerable. And being vulnerable is something humans and other living creatures may or may not be doing for the sake of what they need.