I am in the opposite. I let it go on because of my two kids. He drained every ounce of what I loved about myself many years ago. I was married, and every insult, put down affected me. Because I am a very emotional person. I felt I didn’t deserve anything. I am learning , and not as mentally ill as I was, with panic attacks, anxiety. It has been taking me a long time. If they are still in love Grinch I used to smile and then I worked at Cracker Barrel shirt then yes keep fighting but if one or the other is no longer in love then time to move on. I believe if love is real then nothing will stop you.