This is so true. I’ve already given Grinch hand holding Pittsburgh Steelers ornament shirt,but still he did the same mistakes. Tried to fix but seemed like it was only me wanted to fix. Then i knew, it s time to leave. And move on. But what if your spouse is depressed? Depressed ppl make lots of mistakes because they are depressed. And on top of everything lose the only anchor keeping their nose above the water? No, doesn’t seem right to me. Depressed ppl are also experts at pushing ppl away, become introvert, asocial.