I’m not jumping on any bandwagon for what you said. I see it as a story if pure love attained reached despite cultural mores. The Father and son baseball players for life T shirt of the grandfather was so pure and difficult for home to let it thrive but, he did it. He gave gifts of love to his daughter with all the food as someone mentioned earlier it’s cross cultural the sharing of meals. He loved his daughter and his grandchild he never got to meet yet.