Men need quiet. Here and there, now and then, some. Don’t Ask Us We’re Just The Knockers Shirt! But don’t be thinking some is a word to be taken small. A man needs honor. Don’t throw honor at little boys and young men; they know they haven’t earned it and it makes them feel like they’re wearing a costume. The best kind of man honor is that long mule march of one-day-at-a-time, doing the right thing instead of the fun thing. Let a man stack some decades one on top of another, then you can call him Sir and he’ll hold still for the moment.