I completely agree with this Dale Earnhardt the man the myth the legend the intimidator shirt. Our job as parents is to guide our children in the right direction and support them through the paths of life. Help them find their voice and how to achieve, stay focused and learn how to have a Growth mindset for life. They need us to set rules and show them which paths are positive and which are negative. Kids need to be kids and enjoy it they are only little for a short time once. So they become adults the rules to life change. And they will be happy adults cause they got to enjoy their childhood without being under some strict law of how they need to be so busy. So they don’t have time to think on their own or even breath. I’ve seen kids and know from experience that the minute you push them into an area.