I don’t think it’s all denial, fear, and insecurity. Sometimes it’s a logical decision to not be in a relationship. Especially if your pursuit of your dream career leads to moving halfway across the country twice in one year. Social media ruined it. Females too busy entertaining groups of people instead of just 1 guy. Only attracting one night stand type of guys. Good guys skim passed. She was my lover partner and best of friend. We ceased every moment of every day . You can’t be scared to tell someone something beautiful. If you see a Christmas tree dear Santa all I want for Christmas is Sloth shirt on someone tell them thanks or how pretty their eyes are.