My idea of a great party is jammies, Cats reflection tigers shirt, tea, and a good book. You do your party, I’ll do mine. Every day is special!! We are all special too! Make the memories using nice things for everyday! Tomorrow is not promised.  I heard stories of those who perished having kept things for a special occasion and of course, it never came for them. So in their honor, we got the good cutlery out and have used it ever since. Growing up I was told by everyone it was best if I hid my fat in baggy or dark clothes, to hide behind busy patterns that made my shape hard to discern. When I got older I broke every rule, wearing bright colors, clothes that show my figure.