It’s not excuses some of us who’ve had children don’t bounce back even with BIG MAPLE IN THE BIG APPLE Shirt and eating clean. Which I’ve been doing. For the almost year since I have had a kid. When it comes down to it everyone’s body is different and reacts differently to certain foods and exercise, both men and women. Then you also have to take into effect certain health issues, possible disabilities, injuries. Some women are very lucky and can bounce back pretty quickly after having a kid, while others can struggle and take forever.