I agree with that, to help yourself first. But the wrong thing in this Is that some people understand that in very selfish ways, even after they helped themselves they forgot that than the next step is to help others. I freaking love your Betty Boop my coffee and I are having a moment shirt. Ever since I’ve been following you and Jay Shetty my life is better. I’ve turned to God with a more open mind. I’ve learned to love others around me more. I’ve learned that I’m important and my self worth is worth the effort. I know I’ve always been this person. You just helped me find him and embrace him. I thank you for what your doing. God bless my brother. Keep the positive vibes flowing. I share your wisdom with my children and my family.