I don’t ignore Backstreet Boys Nick Carter Kevin Richardson Howie Dorough AJ McLean Brian Littrell signature shirt or pretend the negative doesn’t exist. But I don’t wallow in it like I used to. I can choose to be miserable or I can choose to be happy. The sun will keep rising and setting and you can make yourself happy or miserable. That choice exists regardless of circumstances. My mom, during her terminal illness aid. I allow myself one hour a day to feel sorry for myself and cry and be angry, then I pick myself up and get on with it. Thank you for giving nay-sayers a positive perspective. He might not have all the experiences yet but the fact he is up there proves he isn’t just speaking it, he is actually making his dreams come true! I agree you don’t have to have adult experiences to fulfil your life long dream.