f a man knows you and what you like A wee bit O’ wine is fine St Patrick’s Day shirt. So its not hard to order for your daughter or wife. I’ve been with my girlfriend 6 years. I can order for her and she can order for me. 9 x’s out of 10 we’ve already had some discussion of what we have a taste for. So that’s how we chose the restaurant. Aside from that, there are signals that a man may be controlling. If you have a voice speak up. But simply say “no I’ll have”. Not necessarily true. If both adults are ok with it, that’s choice. I’ve had lunches where I pick the place, time, and food we both are having. And she had a good time and even liked that I picked everything. And no.